Why not "Once Upon a Parent" or "Father"?
"Parent" is school assemblies and adult consent;
"Father" rings strict and preachy.
As my dear, brilliant wife sealed it: "anyone can
be a 'father'... but it takes time, love, and
being present to be a 'dad'".

 

There are millions of stories out on the training fields of parenthood. This blog will record some thoughts and experiences, fears and solutions, doubts and convictions.
"Once a Parent -- Always a Parent":
let the sharing begin!

these fingers were meant for touching

From the moment each of my two boys were born, I found myself in love with their nails and tiny fingers as well as the rest of them. These days, when my younger 3-year-old allows me to hold his hand in mine for any length of time, I remain mesmerized by his fingers: how skin reveals hard works or not, manual versus servant labor, where these hands have been and how often they have dried up, gotten wet, experienced lifting, squishing, grasping…

I hold my young one’s hand, admiring his chubby, less-experienced joints, and can almost imagine the work awaiting them.

Wonderful digits; glorious growth indexes!

And it always helps to remember the anonymous saying “When you point your finger at someone, three fingers are pointing back at you.”

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